God dag venner! (Good day friends!)
Quick Note: If you're just joining me in this crazy tale of events, let me make things a little less confusing by pointing you to
Let's Start From The Beginning: Part One, Part Two, Part Three, and Part Four.
I hope this clears things up a bit... Now, on with the show!
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I shook my head. “No, no Becky. They’re not Norwegian. You only think that because you just spent an entire week with Norwegians. Stop seeing things,” I convinced myself as I sat at the gate in Philadelphia waiting for my flight to Orlando, somewhat gawking at the small group of very Scandinavian looking people sitting right in front of me. [I do believe this is where I left you all in my tale of “Why Norway.” Now, get ready for the final installment of this staggering tale!]
I started looking more closely at these people’s clothes... Yes, quite Scandinavian in style. Then their faces... Every one of them had light blue eyes; again, quite Scandinavian. Then what they were holding in their hands... Magazines definitely not written in English. In fact, they looked quite similar to Norwegian... No. No?
That’s when one of the women in the group, a woman with a teenage boy on one side of her, and a teenager girl on the other (presumably her children), finally turned to me (me?!), and asked me something in Norwegian. She spoke so fast that all I understood was “Young Life.” I must admit, I felt quite the fool, as I was practically staring at them all as I was studying them, so this woman probably felt obligated to say something to me. But why hadn’t she spoken to me in English? Then I realized, my shirt read ‘Norge’; my shirt was written in Norwegian! And I have blonde hair & blue eyes. Of course she assumed I was Norwegian!
I sheepishly responded, “Um, I’m sorry... I know all of this [gesturing to myself] looks very convincing, but I am not actually Norwegian. And all I understood from you was ‘Young Life.’”
The woman looked back at me a little shocked (probably with the same expression she received from me) and said again, this time in English, “Do you do Young Life in Norway?”
Huh? Come again? I was so stunned by the way this woman asked about Young Life, because it wasn’t the new kind of inquiry, when people are asking “What is Young Life?” but it was a familiar question, one where she evidently had heard of the organization, and was merely wanting to know if I did YL in Norway.
“Um... Noooo... Well, not yet anyway. I mean, I’m going to! In fact, I just spent a week at Lake Champion with the YL Norway crew for camp,” I replied as I tried my best to stay in my seat, as all I wanted to do at that moment was jump up and hug these strangers for knowing about YL Norge.
“Yes, well, my son here was supposed to be on that Young Life trip. One of his friends went with everyone, but he was unable to, as we already had this trip to Orlando planned. You see, we’re from Stavanger.”
::mind blown::
I seriously don’t know how I continued a conversation after this point, because it was just so implausible to me that these Norwegians, these Norwegians, were who I ended up sitting next to! I continued to talk to this woman, and found out that it was two families that were going on a two week trip to Orlando. They were incredibly sweet (as you will find most Norwegians and Scandinavians to be) and they patiently answered all of my questions about Stavanger. I never wanted to leave these people, and so, as we began to board the plane, I told Jesus, “Dude, if you love me, you’ll have me sitting next to these families.” Yes, indeed, I did silently pray that. Which is probably why I didn’t end up sitting anywhere near them. Ha.
Turned out, they were sitting at the front of this jumbo jet, and I was sitting near the rear. As I boarded and made myself comfortable in the middle seat, between a woman and a man, I decided to call my friend Kayla, because I just couldn’t hold in this unbelievable adventure anymore. I described in rushed detail the past 1.5 hours, with the YL kid, the Oslo sign, and these two families. I just had to tell someone! And, well, I’m so glad I did, because, funnily enough, God wasn’t quite done surprising me yet. As I hung up the phone, put my seat & tray table were in their upright and locked positions, and checked that my seat belt was secure, the man to my right turned to me and said, “Du snakker Norsk?”
‘Do you speak Norwegian?’
Do I what?!!? What is going on here?!
“Noooo....! Do you!?” I practically squealed.
“Yes. I come from Norway,” he responded with his slight Norwegian accent (that I will never be able to reproduce, no matter how hard I try-- Sorry Joel.)
I’m not sure how I stayed conscious after this comment. I never would have thought I could handle so many staggering events in such a short duration. It was one adrenaline rush after another. My heart felt as though it couldn’t grow any larger, and that was such a wonderful feeling. This man continued to explain that he was from outside Oslo, going to Orlando to visit his son who worked at a Norwegian restaurant in Epcot. I wanted to hug him; I wanted to hug everyone!
I was thankful for a long flight to sit and consider everything that had just happened to me. I replayed each scenario in my head, memorizing the conversations, feelings, and thoughts. And I’m happy to say, I was no longer vexed with God for not answering my specific prayers about whether to go to Norway or do MYCM. I realized, contentedly, that this was a much better way to have prayers answered. I’m almost certain, that even if God had spoken to me the night before, I would have convinced myself that it wasn’t actually His voice, but my own, that was trying to guide me. I likely would have felt guilty and unsure about any decision I made.
In this way, this extremely external confirmation of the choice I made the previous night, I was absolutely incapable of doubting the message God was sending. I was overjoyed not only with His confirmation & affirmation of my desire to go to Norway with Young Life, but also with His indelible display of an answered prayer. God’s message could not have been any clearer, thus, I am on my way to Norway.
The past months have not been empty of the Lord’s providence and signs of His desire for me to move to Norway, as He continues to send small (and sometimes large!) reminders of this call on my life. I have met so many wondrous people through this fundraising process, and I am excited for the many more that have yet to step into my path. I hope these posts have helped answer the question of “Why Norway,” and that you have gleaned something from these encounters of what God can do! I do not share these stories to impress you, but to show how impressed I am with God. So, now, I have a question for you, dear reader.
Would you like to join me on this journey, this adventure, this calling? Would you like to see Norwegian teenagers, parents, families, and communities impacted by the work of Young Life and most importantly by the work of Jesus? If so, I’d love to hear from you. You can find more information on how to support this ministry by checking out the info on the right of this post, listed under “How To Support.” Or you can always talk to me directly, which would be just fine by me.
If you’ve read this story in its entirety, then thanks and congratulations! Now I can bring you all to the current status of this crazy process, so be sure to stop by again soon to hear more on what’s happening nowadays.
As always,
Keep on loving. Keep on living.